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One Life Tutorials


As a channel for the One Life, initiated by a 30 year collaboration with a spiritual master known as Dwahl Khul, The One Life Tutorials come through at the beginning of each month. These are lessons in One Life Awareness as well as commentary on the application of this Awareness in more practical life matters. Sign up to have these delivered to your email once a month at the bottom of the Contact page.

You are Already Enlightened

5/1/2025

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One Life Tutorial for May 2025

The first encounter with the Know One Life website is the statement “You are already enlightened.” This statement is the foundation from which we illuminate One Life principles with these monthly tutorials. It is that everyone and all are fully realized as Enlightened without any prescribed pathways or procedures necessary for seeking and attaining enlightenment. From this perspective, enlightenment is not something that comes from outside of you. Enlightenment is always here, always thriving and intimate. Although it may seem like there are obstacles and obscurations that must be removed in order to know you are already enlightened, the obstacles and obscurations are without any substance. They arise from time to time just as all thoughts arise, and have no impact on your status as enlightened.
There are many points of view expressing the nature of enlightenment. Enlightenment is seen as a sudden awakening, an uncontrived intuitive realization of the true nature of reality beyond conceptual thought. Enlightenment is also seen as the result of gradual cultivation, the consequence of sustained meditation and mindfulness practices over time, rather than a result of an unexpected revelation. Many believe enlightenment is a unification of all aspects of One Life. We suggest that all phenomena are empty of intrinsic, independent existence. Therefore, “You are already Enlightened” is not an evaluation of a current state of being, it is just One Life being One Life.
Enlightenment can also describe the cessation of suffering by uprooting the ignorance of the true nature of existence, which is impermanent and without an individual self. A non-dual perspective proposes that the separation you ordinarily experience is an illusion. At the deepest level, there’s no true division between you and the world,
or between subject and object — everything is already one seamless reality—One Life. You cannot force enlightenment. You cannot imagine enlightenment. Instead, relax perceptions and gently recognize that all experience is fluid, luminous, spacious. You cannot visualize enlightenment, simply notice the natural radiance that is already present in every sensation, thought, and appearance.
There are many notions of enlightenment and yet what underwrites all of them is the simple recognition that there is no seeker and nothing to attain — reality simply is, here and now and You are Already Enlightened.
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The Spontaneous Nature of Compassion

4/1/2025

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The spontaneous nature of compassion refers to the natural, instinctive way in which you respond with care and concern to the suffering of others, without deliberation or expectation of reward. It arises effortlessly when you witness pain, injustice, or vulnerability, and compels you to help or comfort others.
Compassion often bypasses logic and self-interest. This suggests compassion is a primary and deep expression that is natural and present within everyone. You may believe that compassion is linked to emotional empathy which is the ability to feel what another person is feeling, almost as if their emotions were your own. There is an automatic, visceral response that seems to connect you to someone else’s emotions. From the perspective of One Life Awareness, feeling another person's emotions makes perfect sense—it’s like waves in the same ocean affecting each other. In this view, individual separation is an illusion, and empathy is simply a recognition of shared being.
As we are all expressions of One Life, emotions can never be "yours" or "mine"—they arise randomly within the field of existence. Empathy is not about "reading" another person's feelings as something separate, but directly experiencing the ripples of the One Life manifesting in different forms.
Neither emotion nor compassion travels from one person to another. There is no space between one and another. No one owns emotion, just as no one owns compassion. The ego attempts to create the sense that "I am here, and you are over there." But this attempt at separation can never be more than a temporary illusion. When you think you are experiencing joy or sorrow and believe it to be yours or anothers, you are simply experiencing One Life and labeling or assigning the experience to self or other. Understanding the aleatory sense of the process, you will discover the natural and spontaneous nature of compassion, and you will become skillful in knowing compassion as a natural arising in One Life awareness
Confidence in the spontaneous arising of compassion in times of difficulty and challenge is simply the maturing of your knowing that compassion can never be contrived or manufactured. Compassion becomes more and more reliable as you easily trust its spontaneous nature.
Inspired by the term “Dark Night of the Soul” which comes from Christian mysticism, we are calling this time the “Dark Night of the Oversoul.” We use this term “Oversoul,” to identify all beings as already abiding in primordial non-dual awareness rather than as a collection of personal souls. We see humanity as struggling through a profound crisis of meaning, suffering, and transformation, and see the “dark night” as a depiction of deep spiritual emptiness. In the midst of the collective existential challenge that you are facing at this time, compassion is not just the antidote to the suffering, but is also the ground from which service and surrender, components of compassion, can be cultivated. The "Dark Night of the Oversoul " is not the end—it is an initiatory arising that precedes the recognition of One Life—a time of awakening.
The Oversoul, if seen as One Life, does not "need" compassion—compassion is its natural expression. Compassion is uncontrived loving awareness, an effortless expression recognizing the illusory nature of separation. True compassion does not arise from "I help you", but from realizing there was never separation to begin with. This is non-dual compassion—helping others without reinforcing the illusion of helper and helped. Each compassionate act is not "serving" the Oversoul or One Life, but is the Oversoul/One Life knowing itself through experience.
Allow yourself to simply support the natural arising of spontaneous compassion in everyday actions. And notice when you are being supported seemingly by others, all the while more deeply knowing that it is One Life that is simply unfolding as it is.
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March 31st, 2025

3/31/2025

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Grieving the Future

3/1/2025

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We are going to discuss the nature of “grieving the future” by starting with an inquiry into the broader sense of being in the present moment-- the here and now. It all seems very simple: the present moment lies somewhere between the past and the future. With the Past and the Future labeled and reified as boundaries you can unequivocally declare that you are resting in the present. Past and Future provide the margins required to define the present. These boundaries are dependent upon a linear organization of time and space. Past is what has been, future is what will come, and present is here now.  All of this is a construct created by you in every moment as a method of organizing your reality. Diving deep brings you to face the conundrum of a present that only exists if a Past and a Future exist, while understanding the need to stand in a now moment with Now having no separate existence.


Grieving the future emphasizes the linear construct of your reality. The term “grieving the future” describes the deep sorrow or mourning you feel over a future that is lost, changed, or no longer possible. It often arises in situations when hopes, dreams, or expectations for life, relationships, or the world are determined to be impossible. The deeper nature of the grief is a perfect example of suffering as the result of attachment to that which is ineffable.


All grief is a holding on to the basic idea that something went wrong and living in the consequence of that wrong is sufferable. Grieving the future is a unique kind of grief because it's not about something that has already happened, but about something that is believed will never happen. This makes it complex, as you may struggle to process it without any tangible closure. It can feel ambiguous, frustrating, and even isolating. It starts with consciously or unconsciously identifying the present as lacking something which was supposed to guarantee a future. When the future unfolds without manifesting what was thought to be guaranteed, grief ensues. Usually, several attempts to change what is and fix things that are unfixable result in grief.


If you want to address grief, we suggest that instead of identifying the grief as a problem to solve, observe emotions as they arise and let them self-liberate. Grief, when met with open awareness, transforms—not by suppressing it, but by seeing its nature as transient and luminous. Reality is already complete just as it is. Even in grief, there is nothing fundamentally wrong or lacking. This does not mean denying pain but recognizing that suffering arises when we resist the flow of what is.


You use your conceptual past-present-future construct primarily to help you orient and navigate the present. Future seems to exist “out there” somewhere right on the boundary of where the present is no longer recognized. To create a sense of future you try to imagine all possible results of thoughts and actions labeled to be present. Creating future demands that you are always on the edge of the present and future, and always pushing the present behind you into the past.


Truly, past and future, as well as present, are all conceptual constructs. There is no substantiality, the present moment cannot exist, the past and future are empty. Let go of your fixed, linear timeline, rest in the immediacy of awareness, and suffering dissolves naturally. Do not attach yourself to your ideas of future. No matter what the content of the ideas, it is the act of holding on, of clinging to and grasping for any future that creates the suffering. Here is where the deeper understanding of impermanence and the profound knowing of Great Perfection arise to free you.


Emphasize the recognition of the natural, ever-present state of awareness, and approach "grieving the future" with a perspective rooted in impermanence. This does not dismiss the human experience of suffering. Compassion naturally arises when you see how your own and others' struggles come from clinging to illusions. Allowing spaciousness around grief—rather than resisting or indulging it—lets grief move through awareness like clouds in the sky. All thoughts of the future are just thoughts, do not solidify them. Trust the spontaneous unfolding of life rather than holding on to a specific path and allow grief to arise and fall away naturally.


There is a lot of grief present in the world right now that is felt by all of humanity. Grieving the future has been generated by the consciousness of humanity legitimately in the habit of defining where they exist in the present relative to what they have determined to be past and future. Return to a sense of the timeless and dimensionless space of existence. Simply allow what is, and free yourself from the suffering and all grief associated with the future. Be as compassionate with yourself as you are with others, and allow loving awareness to guide you.
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Changes

2/1/2025

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CHANGES
​One Life Tutorial for January 2025

             Part of the dynamic of a new calendar year is the realization that you are in the midst of a big change--an internal reorganization of everything that you think you are and how you relate to your world. The new calendar year syncs everyone up to a new reality. In more of a cosmic sense, a new year represents a new stage of the transformation that is impermanence—unfolding One Life expressing All That Is. To many it feels almost as if you've scattered bits of Self in the wind. It's not so much that the old picture of your Self needs to be updated, it's more like this old picture of Self doesn't resemble what you know to be inside. The whole world seems to be in greater and greater chaos with little reason to suspect that anything is going to go back to a previously known sanctity. It is a truly fascinating time because all of the pieces of Self are tossed into the air, and where they will land and how they will create the new picture of your Self is unknown so there's a lot of creative potential. The question becomes “how do you make this potential a life that you can live, engaging and interesting but not overwhelming?
              The answer lies in first realizing the impermanence of everything. You also must let go of notions of polarization and separation, especially as it pertains to what is seems to be “next” in your life. There can be no “right” and “wrong” judgments about anything. Everything must be free to change. If you try to maintain a position that is not flexible, you will feel stuck and immobilized. Even the most cherished beliefs you hold to be absolute and unchangeable will come up for re-evaluation. These beliefs can sometimes appear to be realities, but they are actually thought projections. It is important to remain patient and comfortable while all of the pieces of you are “up in the air” --even though the tendency is to hold on tighter when you perceive that life might be changing in a way that is unfamiliar. What you desire most is for the bits and pieces of Self to be integrated into a whole that allows you to have tremendous freedom. You need to find the freedom to create. This creative freedom is different than an unconscious projection of a thought/idea of who you are as your manifestation in the world. This creative freedom is One Life unfolding.
             The potential of this time is unfathomable, unpredictable, and intangible without allowing even the most trivial things to change. You must get a sense of your Self while not limiting anything. You must know that you are loved throughout every challenge, and completely trust the random encounters with your true Self that can reassure you that the Great Perfection operates at all times with all living creation.
Living the creative freedom of now means not living in any habituation. Habituated thoughts create an habituated life. When you take responsibility for your Self and understand that you can create your Self in every moment, you also give yourself permission to unravel yourself and your life. Even though that may seem frightening, it is actually very freeing. It requires a lot of introspection, requires a lot of self inquiry, requires looking inside and finding what lies in all the nooks and crannies of your being. When you discover you are holding on to ideas about who you are, you will realize that you cannot evaluate whether they are “right” or “wrong”. They are just ideas. Therefore it becomes important to see that if you hold anything with an intense desire or repulsion you're basically reinforcing the intensity of the original separation or division of the pieces and parts of Self. To use the potential of this experience, you must prioritize acceptance of the disintegration of Self over any fascination with why or how this is happening.
             When you ask “why” questions of your Self, you are likely to notice that fear arises with these questions. Remember that your fear is really just information of change. When you feel fear, a biochemical change in the body can alert you to the change that is underway. If you know that everything is impermanent, then you know everything changes, and the fear lessens in its intensity. What matters is the understanding that it's just change and change can then become recognized as healthy, as happy, fueled by an abundant life force. If things are changing, things are alive. If things are not changing, you are stuck. Be able to experience change in a very easy, peaceful, graceful way. Don't decide that perceived change in your life threatens your security. Change is the aliveness of your life.
             It's never about the characteristics of the outside maya, it's always about the changing perception that you carry about everything-- about it all. It's that you bring your perception to the experience and the bigger your perception is, and the more it can contain everything, the more alive it is and the more it changes. In other words, the less you have the blinders on, the less you're looking for just one aspect in something, the more creative you can be. There are just many more options viewable and available. 
             It's  a very fruitful positive time for you to come into a rich place inside yourself where you're willing to explore and experience change. Acknowledging that security actually lies deep within your knowing that because everything changes you, can always get what you want. Knowing this requires just this tiny little shift of the ordinary view to the extraordinary view. The extraordinary view is pure and simple, not complex and elaborate. If you know that everything is changing and you maintain the broadest view possible, you will see your security is everywhere and in everything. This security can help you to maximize the potential of the moment and weave together all the seeming bits and pieces of now.
             So just relax and let the changes occur. Don't resist, don't deny, don't fear. It's just life, One Life, alive and well.
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The Timeless, Dimensionless Reality

2/1/2025

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The Timeless, Dimensionless Reality


As your life’s practice becomes clearer and clearer, you come to know that you are here to live One Life, and to know One Life lives through you. Your life’s practice is the continued conscious application of understanding Reality from a point of view aligned with ever greater recognition of One Life. One Life Awareness is a non-dual understanding of the true nature of reality, which is timeless and dimensionless.


At times, a non-dual perspective may seem unpractical and not very valuable in the daily routine. It can also seem too heady, always reaching the conclusion that there are no words that can fully express what One Life might be. However, a non-dual perspective can become a foundation for how you communicate with others, and not just others who are familiar with thinking through a non-dual lens.


The first step is to fully understand that a non-dual perspective is not the same as a oneness perspective. While it might seem like oneness adequately describes reality, it is actually misleading. There are many versions of Reality described from a oneness perspective that claim the energy of timeless and dimensionless Reality is zero, as it is always a balanced blend of at least two opposing or complementary forces. These energies are usually labeled “positive” and “negative” energies. You can see then that this perspective is dependent upon the maintenance of duality in order to create the oneness. A non-dual perspective employs the consideration that “positive” and “negative” energies, though appearing as opposites, are interdependent and inseparable. One Life is not a thing created by two things merged into one thing. One Life is timeless and dimensionless beyond words. What is more important, however, is that One Life is not something separate from you; it is the very essence of your being. Your practice is to directly realize this truth and rest in that realization. A non-dual view is a deeply transformative view, inviting a shift from dualistic thinking to non-dual awareness, or One Life.


By dissolving the boundaries between the "self" and external experiences, non-dual awareness helps you detach from over-identification with thoughts, emotions, and problems. This shift can create a sense of spaciousness and freedom, reducing the grip of anxiety and stress. Non-dual awareness allows emotions to arise and pass without judgment or clinging, creating a healthier relationship with them. By recognizing that emotions do not define who you are, it becomes easier to respond rather than react to life's challenges. With One Life awareness, attention naturally rests in the present moment rather than oscillating between the past and future. This enhances clarity and focus, making it easier to engage fully with whatever is happening. A non-dual perspective helps dissolve the constant striving for success, validation, or material gain, leading to a sense of contentment and peace. Without the illusion of separation, there is less need to seek fulfillment outside oneself. Seeing others not as separate but as expressions of the same underlying All That Is fosters empathy, compassion, and deeper connection. It becomes easier to let go of blame, resentment, and judgment. Non-dual awareness calls for thinking beyond dualistic categories (right/wrong, success/failure), encouraging holistic and creative approaches to challenges. Solutions then arise naturally without the interference of overthinking or rigid mental constructs. The core of non-dual awareness is the realization that one's essence is already whole. This recognition alleviates existential fears and creates a deep sense of inner peace.


Practices like meditation (e.g., self-inquiry, mindfulness, Dzogchen, yoga, and contemplative inquiry), are pathways to experiences of non-dual awareness. By simply observing thoughts, sensations, and emotions without labeling or attaching to them you can create glimpses of a One Life perspective.


One Life exists beyond time because it is the ever-present awareness that does not arise, change, or cease. It is not limited by spatial concepts, as it is not localized or confined. It pervades all experiences and appearances without being subject to them. Time and space are mental constructs: time arises from conceptual thinking, and space is a relative framework for distinguishing objects. From the standpoint of One Life, neither time nor space has inherent existence. Thus, Reality is timeless, dimensionless, and inseparable from One Life, simply the true nature of who you are as you live One Life and One Life lives you.


In essence, the practical benefit of non-dual awareness lies in its transformative ability to shift one's experience of life, making it less reactive, more peaceful, and profoundly connected to reality. With this wisdom comes the ability to allow all that seems to be Reality to be One Life and all that seems to be One Life to be you. There are practical benefits to attaining this knowing as life can then become so much more than a balancing act. Life can be One Life, your true nature.
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Are You a Spiritual Warrior?

12/1/2024

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Are you a Spiritual Warrior?
One Life Tutorial for December 2024


The concept of a spiritual warrior does not align with traditional ideas of combat or external enemies. Instead, it refers to someone committed to the path of awakening, engaging in an uncontrived natural internal struggle against seemingly negative tendencies and delusions that obstruct a sense of spiritual progress. A spiritual warrior cultivates courage, mindfulness, and compassion to transcend the ego and foster peace within themselves and the world.
We speak of “seemingly negative” tendencies and delusions to be clear that ultimately there are no tendencies and delusions that are inherently negative. The struggle is with what the ego perceives to be mental and emotional afflictions, which once fully understood, can release the primary attachment to notions of duality at the root of all suffering. We talk about spiritual progress and a spiritual path while remembering there is no ladder, nor any progressive quantifier of spiritual progress. We simply speak in these terms so that we can talk to all parts of you.
To express yourself in the context of being a spiritual warrior you might consider yourself to be in a fight against aspects of yourself, perhaps against inner enemies like Ignorance. Ignorance is the fundamental misunderstanding of reality, particularly the delusion of a permanent, independent self. You might be fighting against greed or attachment to desires and sensory pleasures. Anger, resentment and hostility toward others or towards situations may be what you spar with. Perhaps you fight an inflated sense of self-importance or superiority causing doubt, hesitation, or mistrust of your spiritual path. The inner foes are at the root of suffering, and the spiritual warrior uses self-transformation, self-acceptance, and meditative focus to confront and transmute these afflictions.
The journey of a spiritual warrior begins with cultivating the deep desire to alleviate the suffering of oneself and others. This is the seed of the warrior's strength which nurtures a commitment to work toward enlightenment for the benefit of all beings. Self-acceptance is a crucial and foundational step on the path of a spiritual warrior. This acceptance does not mean complacency or condoning harmful behaviors, but rather embracing yourself with honesty, compassion, and non-judgment. It allows for genuine transformation and growth, which are essential for the spiritual warrior's journey.
Meditation engages the spiritual warrior to develop clarity, stability, and insight. Mindfulness creates the groundwork for recognizing the inner enemies (e.g., anger, greed, jealousy) and prevents being overwhelmed by them. Over time, this practice nurtures the courage to face your fears and vulnerabilities. A spiritual warrior aligns with values of nonviolence and compassion. Your "weapons" are loving-kindness, patience, and understanding. The spiritual warrior works not to defeat others but to dissolve barriers between self and world while recognizing the interdependence of all beings.
Through the transformation of afflictions, spiritual warriors become sources of compassion and wisdom for others. Your journey inspires and supports others on their own paths toward awakening to the ultimate reality of interconnection and impermanence. Aligned with this truth, illusions of separateness and ego diminish and become extinguished. The life of a spiritual warrior is one of meaningful engagement. Facing your inner fears and cultivating virtues creates a life of purpose, where you contribute to the collective well-being of all sentient beings. The path of a spiritual warrior requires unwavering effort and resilience. Challenges and setbacks are seen as opportunities for growth rather than obstacles. Perseverance arises from faith in the transformative power of the spiritual path.
In essence, becoming a spiritual warrior is about stepping into the inner worlds with courage, wisdom, and compassion. The "victory" lies not in defeating external enemies but in dismantling the barriers that block love and understanding, allowing your true nature—awakened and interconnected—to shine forth. Are you a spiritual warrior? Most likely, you have engaged in an inner struggle of some kind, only to find that by just being who you authentically are, the struggle ends and the path unfolds naturally before you.
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Reconciliation

11/1/2024

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RECONCILIATION
Approaching the reconciliation of Democrats and Republicans in American politics from a One Life perspective is both unique and challenging. It involves applying principles of non-dual awareness, compassion, and the dissolution of ego-based conflicts to the very polarized and often emotionally charged landscape of political ideology. Although it may seem as if nothing about American politics is aligned with profound spiritual processes, the deeper truth lies in remembering that all aspects of life always reflect the ultimate perfection of all that is as it is.
The first step in reconciliation is to move beyond “othering” --that is to stop drawing boundaries separating “you” from “not you.” The recognition that dualistic thinking is a root cause of suffering can be applied to politics, with the intense division between Democrats and Republicans often leading to seeing the other side as inherently wrong or even as an enemy. You are invited to go beyond this “you” and “not you" mentality and see that these categories are mental constructs.
Understanding that you share the same basic needs, fears, and aspirations can help soften the rigid boundaries between political identities. By seeing beyond the labels of "Democrat" or "Republican," you can begin to recognize the common humanity that underlies all political perspectives. Practicing non-attachment to fixed ideas and beliefs can open communication creating space for genuine dialogue and understanding of differing opinions, but only if you are willing to question your own political assumptions and the need to be right. Emphasize recognizing the nature of your mind and notice how thoughts and emotions arise. Applying this to political discourse means being aware of your own biases, judgments, and conditioned responses when engaging with people of different viewpoints.
Listen to understand, not to react. All reconciliation requires deep listening, where the goal is to understand the concerns, fears, and values of the other side without immediately reacting or forming counterarguments. This approach fosters mutual respect and the possibility of finding common ground.
Take a non-aggressive approach by establishing a stance of non-interference. Allow situations to unfold naturally without forcing an outcome. In political conversations, this means reducing the tendency to control or dominate the dialogue, instead creating space for organic and respectful exchanges.
Practice acceptance of what Is. Reconciliation also means accepting the current state of division without immediate judgment or resistance. From a place of acceptance, there is more room to work constructively towards change without the frustration that arises from trying to force others to adopt a particular viewpoint.
Transform Conflict into Wisdom. Perceive political conflict as a path of growth. Allow all challenges and conflicts, not just those conflicts that are political in nature, to be seen as opportunities for deeper self-awareness and insight. The political friction between Democrats and Republicans can be approached as a chance to better understand the fears, hopes, and motivations of society at large, transforming conflict into a source of collective wisdom.
Rely on self-reflection. Your self-reflection on your emotional triggers and reactions to political differences can lead to greater clarity and inner peace. By examining the roots of your own political beliefs, you can engage in dialogue with more openness and less defensiveness.

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Create Meaningful Connection with Empathy

10/1/2024

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CREATE MEANINGFUL CONNECTION WITH EMPATHY
The foundational element of a good life is meaningful connection. Now is the time to create and acknowledge the meaningful connections which are deep and authentic bonds between yourself and others. A meaningful connection is characterized by mutual understanding, trust, and respect. In meaningful connection, you share your genuine thoughts, feelings, and experiences, and create spaces where it is safe for both of you to be vulnerable. This openness fosters a sense of being seen and heard for who you and another truly are.
A meaningful connection involves giving and receiving. Both parties invest time, energy, and care into the relationship. There is a balance between supporting and being supported, as mutual effort strengthens the bond. Trust forms the foundation of meaningful relationships. You know you can rely on another during difficult times, and there's confidence that each of you has the best interests for all at heart. In meaningful connections, individuals support each other’s personal growth. You challenge and inspire one another to be everything you each can be while offering encouragement and understanding during setbacks. Meaningful connections can exist between very different people. Empathy and compassion are the common ground that promotes a strong foundation for deepening the relationship over time.
Empathy is essential for a meaningful connection. Empathy is the ability to understand and share the feelings, thoughts, and experiences of another person. It involves placing yourself in another’s situation and seeing the world from their perspective. When you feel that others understand your feelings, you feel supported and validated. When you understand another’s feelings, or at the very least attempt to understand another’s feelings, you can respond with care and sensitivity—compassion--which can create and strengthen meaningful connection.
Empathy creates a safe space for vulnerability. When you know that your feelings will be understood without judgment, you are more likely to open up. This openness fosters trust, a key element of meaningful connections. Empathy encourages mutual care. When one person demonstrates empathy, it often prompts the other to reciprocate, creating a balanced and emotionally fulfilling relationship.
In the context of One Life Awareness, empathy is uniquely rooted in the teachings of awareness, non-duality, and the nature of mind. One Life Awareness emphasizes recognizing the true, unconditioned state of being. From this perspective, empathy can be seen through the lens of interconnectedness and compassionate awareness.
The natural state of mind is described as a state of pure awareness that is inherently compassionate and connected to all beings. Empathy, then, would be seen as an expression of this innate compassion. When you rest in your true nature, empathy arises spontaneously because you recognize the interconnectedness of all beings. There is no sense of separation between yourself and others, so the suffering or joy of others is felt directly and naturally. Knowing the non-dual nature of reality, there is no inherent separation between self and other.
Empathy, from this perspective, is not just an emotional response to another person’s feelings, but a recognition of the shared nature of being. In this view, empathy transcends the ordinary subject-object duality. Instead of “I feel your pain,” there is a deeper realization of the oneness of experience: “Your pain is not separate from my awareness.”
While conventional empathy often involves emotional resonance with another's feelings, One Life Awareness allows you to recognize that emotions arise within the context of primordial awareness. You are encouraged to experience emotions, including empathy, without attachment or clinging. This means you can feel empathy in a spacious, non-reactive way, allowing for compassionate action without being overwhelmed or fixated on the emotional experience itself.
In conjunction with bodhicitta, the awakened mind of compassion seeks
 enlightenment for the benefit of all beings. Empathy, in this context, is viewed as a natural extension of bodhicitta. You feel the suffering of others because you understand the interdependence of all beings and strive to alleviate that suffering. This empathy is based on wisdom—the understanding of the nature of suffering and its causes—and compassion, which motivates action.
The concept of ego or self-identity is seen as an illusion. When empathy arises in a non-enlightened state, it often comes with a sense of "I am being empathetic" or "I feel for you." However, we point to the possibility of empathy arising without this ego-based identity. In this sense, empathy is not about me feeling your pain; it is simply the natural response of an open, One Life awareness to suffering, free from 
personal ownership or attachment.
Actions most appropriately arise spontaneously from the natural state of awareness. Empathy, therefore, is an uncontrived, effortless response to the suffering of others. Rather than being a cultivated skill or emotion, it flows naturally from a state of clear awareness that recognizes the interdependence and inherent compassion of all beings.
So a meaningful connection relies on the development of empathy as a means of underwriting compassionate action in the world. At its core, a meaningful connection brings fulfillment, emotional well-being, and a sense of belonging, making life richer and more purposeful. We encourage you to create meaningful connection in all your relationships by simply allowing your most natural arising of empathy and compassion, and by developing awareness that promotes the openness for that empathy and compassion to be present and respected.



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Stopping the World

9/1/2024

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Tutorial for September 2024


“Stopping the World”


"Stopping the world" refers to a concept in which you halt your ordinary interpretation of reality, thereby opening up new ways of perceiving the world. Your everyday reality is a construction of your habitual thoughts and perceptions, which creates a "world" in which you are constantly engaged. You build the world, then live in it, continually maintaining its relevancy. By "stopping the world," you interrupt your habitual patterns, which allows for the perception of different realities or different aspects of reality that are usually hidden from ordinary consciousness. The practice of “stopping the world” involves shifting awareness away from your ordinary interpretations and expectations, which allows you to see the world in a new, more fluid, and less rigid way. Your normal perception is shaped by social and cultural conditioning, which creates a fixed framework or "worldview" through which you interpret your experiences. To "stop the world" is to disrupt this framework, allowing you to perceive reality without the usual filters and assumptions.

When you stop paying attention to constant thoughts arising and falling, you can experience reality more directly. Thoughts often act as evidence for unconscious judgments of your experiences. Without these mental constructs, there is a clearer, more immediate connection to the present moment. While in some ways, the thoughts never stop, the cessation of habitual attention to thoughts can lead to profound inner peace. The mind’s attention to constant chatter is often a source of stress, anxiety, and distraction. In the absence of this chatter, there is a natural stillness and tranquility that emerges, providing a deep sense of relaxation and contentment. When you are not caught up in the stream of thoughts, your attention naturally becomes more present and expansive. This increased presence can lead to greater sensitivity to the subtleties of life and a deeper appreciation of each moment. By stepping out of the habitual thought patterns, you open space for intuitive insights to arise. Without the interference of the analytical mind, deeper layers of consciousness can surface, offering creative solutions and a clearer understanding of complex situations.

The ego, or the sense of a separate self, is largely sustained by believing your thoughts are reliably describing your reality. In the absence of this belief, the ego’s grip loosens, allowing for the experience of a more expansive, non-dual (One Life) awareness. This can lead to a greater sense of freedom, as you're no longer confined by the limitations of egoic identity.

In many spiritual traditions, although not identified as “stopping the world,” the practice of disentangling yourself from believing what you think promotes a greater connection to One Life and engages you with the underlying unity of existence, where the distinction between self and other, subject and object, dissolves.

A significant part of "stopping the world" involves silencing the "internal monologue"—the constant mental chatter that reinforces your habitual perception of reality. This inner chatter is seen as the main mechanism by which you maintain your normal, everyday interpretation of the world. By quieting this discourse, you can experience reality in a more direct, unmediated way aligning your perception with the underlying forces of the universe, beyond the seeming limitations of ordinary awareness.

Next time you notice your thoughts running amok, notice how giving them importance just perpetuates emotional turmoil by constantly replaying past events or worrying about the future. When you have awareness and allow your world to simply unfold consciously, emotional patterns can settle, leading to greater emotional balance and the natural healing of unresolved feelings.

In essence, “stopping the world” isn’t about rejecting the mind’s capacity for establishing a worldview, or even about ceasing to think, but rather about recognizing that there is a vast realm of awareness beyond your world view. This realm offers a direct encounter with the essence of existence, providing a sense of wholeness, peace, and deep connection to life. To "stop the world" is to disrupt the framework of your reality, allowing you to perceive reality with awareness.


By stopping the world, you learn to see beyond the illusion of the material world, understanding that what you consider to be "reality" is just one interpretation among many possible ways of perceiving existence. Ordinary reality is just an interpretation of experiences that differs from one person to the next, and freeing yourself from the limitations imposed by socialization, cultural norms, and personal history, allows for a more fluid and adaptable way of being.
Some practical ways to “stop the world”:

Practice Presence and embrace change: Focus on the present moment without judgment. This involves bringing your attention to the sensations of your body, your breath, or the sounds around you. When thoughts arise, gently return your focus to the present. Remember everything is impermanent, all sensations are transient. Nothing is fixed or solid, everything is really nothing.

Labeling Thoughts: When a thought comes up, mentally label it as “thinking” and then let it go. This reduces the power of the thought by making you more aware of it without engaging with it. Visualize your thoughts as clouds passing in the sky or leaves floating down a stream. Instead of getting caught up in them, simply observe them as they arise and disappear.

Focus on the Breath: Concentrate on your breathing. Pay attention to the sensation of air entering and leaving your nostrils or the rise and fall of your abdomen. This simple focus can help quiet the mind. You can also count each breath-- each inhale and exhale up to 10, then start over. If your mind wanders, gently bring it back to the breath and start the count again.

Cultivate the Witness Consciousness: Practice seeing yourself as the observer of your thoughts, rather than identifying with them. Recognize that you are the awareness behind the thoughts, not the thoughts themselves. Engage in self-inquiry by asking, "Who is thinking this thought?" This can lead to a deeper realization that thoughts arise in consciousness but are not the essence of who you are.

By incorporating these practices into your daily routine, you can gradually reduce the dominance of thought in your life and experience more moments of mental quiet and clarity. From time to time, “stop the world” and discover the deeper sense of who you are and what life is truly about. A new approach to the mundane activities of life can promote the wonder and magic of reality that is not stuck in habituation. And finally, keep it simple—and love everyone and everything.

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